About Natalie

Bringing over 25 years experience working with many people in different countries, Natalie began sharing and working with others in the self help, spiritual and healing field in her early 30's.

She is committed to helping others in whatever way she can and it is through her own difficulties in life that she is now able to effectively resonate, understand and support her clients, many of whom have become friends.

She has attended many courses, trained as a Samaritan, completed a foundation course in counselling, is a qualified and NFSH registered healer and also a Reiki Master.

The latest addition is Theta Healing, a very welcome new tool to add to all she already does.

In the last few months she has been privileged to have been invited to speak about emotions at the University of the West Indies in Barbados, as well as working with groups in the business community there.

Born in London and living in the south of England until she moved to Barbados in 1988, she now lives in Buckinghamshire, England having returned to the UK in 2000.

Natalie has travelled extensively in the last few years, visiting Australia, USA, Barbados and Europe, meeting many people and working in groups during that time.

She has 2 grown up children and has been married twice.

She feels passionate about helping others to find the joy, peace and love that she has thus far found! With her current understanding of life and why we are the way we are, this passion forms the basis of everything she now does.

It comes from her own journey, finding out what works, what does not, understanding that for those who are holding onto a great deal of pain and damage within, it is not possible to be in joy, as many self help teachers propose. The only effective way of creating a powerful and permanent change into more joy, and more love is to move through the damage, and the core emotions that are in the way. Then it is all there!

Please go to www.thetahealingworks.co.uk for more about Theta Healing

 and for other areas of Natalie's work go to www.psychicstuff.co.uk

More from Natalie.

The following comes from being asked by some of my friends and clients to expand on who I am, and explain a little more about my life, so here it is!

 I have begun the most amazing journey within myself that just 5 years ago I would have found unimaginable.

It has brought me wonder, pain, joy, sadness, hope, despair, awe, excitement and much more.

At the age of 54 I feel that I am just truely discovering myself and am taking the only journey worth taking, which is the one within myself, spiritually and emotionally.

There have been so many shifts, realisations, knowings, understandings along the way, that have helped do much in undertsanding why my life has been the way it has been. I had no idea just how much damage, negativity, fear, pain and unhappiness was stored deep within me.

Life has never been boring! But until recently not particularly happy either. I was adopted by a psychiatrist, and never really had any “normal “ experiences, whatever normal is! But I felt that throughout my teens, 20’s and thirty’s I was fine. Yes I felt a victim most of the time and always had things wrong with me physically and had a lot of anger but I really thought that what I felt was normal and that was how everyone felt. I only realised in the last few years what “well” actually felt like. I thought everyone felt like I did every day. I used to wake up every single day of my life feeling dread. I did not want to begin another day. I was alright once I was up, it was just that feeling first thing in the morning.

I did not know how unhappy, fearful, and sad I actually was.

Anyway to cut a long story very short, I became a healer and psychic in my 30’s and began to help other people. When I look back at that time I wonder and marvel that I was even remotely capable of helping anyone because I was in far more of a mess than I actually realised…even though I had been bought up by a woman who was acknowledged to be this source of wisdom and knowing, as far as physical and mental health is concerned. Looking back now I can see tht although she was doing her best, she was really messed up too. We all are!

I had many physical challenges, including bad back problems, and things got worse and worse, with endless headaches, and eventually fibromyalgia. I ended up having major surgery in my late forties and literally feel apart.

Having reached 50 I felt that I had done a great deal of work on myself and helped a great many people, which is what most therapists do of course. I had done many meditations, forgiveness processes, read hundreds of self help/healing/spiritual books, studied many philosophies and belief systems, and so in other words, done what so many others have done…and I “knew” a lot of stuff! I was helping my clients and getting through life.

Having been a single parent for much of motherhood and having 2 awesome children, I thought I was doing OK in that department too and my psychiatric upbringing accounted for something!

I then discovered that I was not where I thought I was emotionally or spiritually. It was a very uncomfortable realisation. And I began a new different journey into emotions, emotional damage, core emotions and pain and fear, and all the emotional filters that create your own reality…(such as mine believing that everyone felt like I did every day)…and the Law of Attraction.

So it began, a deeper inner journey, and can now say that so much of what I thought I had done previously I had not. We are all so brilliant at completely suppressing pain and negative experiences. I had no idea how much I had suppressed that has caused me so many difficulties. We are also quite brilliant at fooling ourselves that we are fine! That we have forgiven, meditated on, healed this apsect and that aspect of our lives and much of the time we have not. We have barely touched the surface. We have felt one layer of pain, or even a few layers but for many of us there is a great deal more that is hidden, that our awareness is not seeing because we do not want to see or to feel what is really there.

There is an understanding now that I am creating the entire thing, and very focussed on no longer blaming anyone else for anything. I was a master blamer and I was angry at the world for giving me such a raw deal. To now have understanding of where the panic attacks came from, where so much anger has come from, is amazing, because it was all hidden, supressed deep within. The words rejection and abandonment are huge themes in my life originating from my adoption. I now understand so much. Everything makes sense!

For the last few years I have been working with and processing my emotions, finding ways that work, some that are easier than others, and am learning to take responsibility for every single thing that happens in my life.

 I have built on what I have been taught and am now sharing the best bits that have come in many different ways, since I began. Some of what I initially was doing was just too confronting, and many of those I was sharing with at that time were not willing to be that confronted! So now everything has fallen into place so that anyone can begin and start to make a difference in their experience.

In fact the more work I do on myself emotionally the more amazed I am at how cleaver the whole system is, when you understand exactly what is happening and why. But the understanding has been emotional…not intellectual and I have not been able to work anything out intellectually prior to the emotional work. It is never what or how I think it will be…never.

So the focus of my work now is of course to help everyone who is ready to begin to adapt and see the beauty of the way our lives really work. To welcome all experiences, even the negative ones, because everything that happens in our lives is there in the most perfect way through our own calling, through the Law of Attraction, to show us where we need to go…emotionally…to heal ourselves.

 This emotional work is my passion. For myself and sharing with others. A wonderful way of life!

If you feel you are ready to take the next step in your progression I may be the person for you. I share how to become completely self empowered so that eventually you may not ever need another therapist, healer or counsellor. I show you how to transform your life and by taking total responsibility you stop looking outside of yourself to be fixed by someone else….what do they know of your experience?

The chances are they are just as, if not more damaged than you are.

What have you got to loose? Get in touch and have a chat with me. I will explain how I can help you.

I look forward to working with you!